Saturday, July 25, 2020

在成功的路上,它不会是很容易的事,但它也永远不会是很难的事!

 当我们迈向着我们设定目标的时候,偶尔一定会遇到一些我们自己都预想不到的事,比如;嘲笑,讽刺,挫折,等等。所以在很多时候我们都会想是否我们做的是对的吗?这个选择是对的吗?是我想要的吗?这个人生真的是我要的吗?我们就会开始怀疑自己。这是必经之路。任何人都不会有例外。所以千万不要有任何的多想,不要想太多。只要我们自己已经设定好目标,就必须硬着头皮走下去。偶尔可以回头望一望,想一想我们的初心。当然,计划是永远赶不上变化的。变化是无时无刻都再变,唯一不变的就是变,第二,我们的初心。所以请我们一定要加油,加油,再加油。坚持,坚持,再坚持。没有别的了。

人生就像一场马拉松,只要跑在对的线上就对了。跑累了,就用走的,最重要的是我们的脚要不停的走,就算是一小步也好。永远必须保持这信念,1. 相信 2.坚持 3.加油。


它会是我们的好武器,当我们充分的了解它!
 
2572020和朋友一起骑脚车。当然我的技术不是很好。在骑着脚踏车的路上,必定会有山坡路,下坡路和平路。当我开始骑的时候,平路和下坡是好的,因为不需要用到太多的力气。但是在上坡路时,问题就来了,我们都知道上坡是需要用很多很多的力气,会很累。总会有种想放弃的时候。因为在我们的脑海里,都会在想不要对自己这么刻薄,放弃吧!理由会很多。当我们想要放弃的时候,总会寻找很多很好的理由!但是成功的人,只要有一个好的理由,就会有个总不放弃的想法。这就是差别。

当我骑着脚车在上坡时,感觉真的有点不行了,在那一刻,我下车了,我用走的,右手牵着脚车,然后继续的走,你也许会问,为什么不把脚车放下就好,一人继续的走?我会选择牵着脚车一起行走是因为当我休息好了,我还可以骑回脚车,然后继续前进,速度会比较快点,不是吗?当然有时候,在成功的道路上,我们会面对各种各样的挑战,也许在迈向成功的道路,脚步有时会慢了下来,但不用紧,只要我们的脚还在迈向成功的路上继续的走就对了。没有慢与快,只要可以到达目的地就好了。

当我们跑累了,那就用走的吧!最重要的是脚不能停下来(有放弃的念头),请继续的走。调理好了心态,请继续的跑。在人生的道路上,有起起落落是正常的。因为没有一个人的人生是一帆风顺的。这是肯定的。没有之一。就是因为有了这些起起落落,挑战,挫折,成与败,我们的人生才有彩虹,人生才精彩,不是吗?在成功的路上,它不会是很容易的事,但它也不会是很难的事。请相信自己一定能办得到!如果你都对自己没有相信,那还有谁可以对你有相信呢?


Monday, May 18, 2020

Successful People Have a Bias for Action


Planning has its place, but it must be kept in perspective. Some people spend their whole lives waiting for the perfect time to do something. There’s rarely a “perfect” time to do anything. What is important is to just get started. Get into the game. Get on the playing field. Once you do, you will start to get feedback that will help you make the corrections you need to make to be successful. Once you are in action, you will start learning at a much more rapid rate.

Ready, Fire, Aim!
Most people are familiar with the phrase “Ready, aim, fire!” The problem is that too many people spend their whole life aiming and never firing. They are always getting ready, getting it perfect. The quickest way to hit a target is to fire, see where the bullet landed, and then adjust your aim accordingly. If the hit was 2 inches above the target, lower your aim a little. Fire again. See where it is now. Keep firing and keep readjusting. Soon you are hitting the bull’s-eye. The same is true for anything. 


Fail Forward

No man ever became great or good except through many and great mistakes. 

Willian E. Gladstone- Former Prime minister of Great Britain.

Many people fail to take action because they’re afraid to fail. Successful people, on the other hand, realize that failure is an important part of the learning process. They know that failure is just a way we learn by trial and error. Not only do we need to stop being so afraid of failure but we also need to be willing to fail- even eager to fail. I call this kind of instructive failure “failing forward.” Simply get started, make mistakes, listen to the feedback, correct, and keep moving forward toward the goal. Every experience will yield up more useful information that you can apply the next time.

“You can never learn less; you can only learn more. The reason I know so much is because I have made so many mistakes”. 

Buckminster Fuller –Mathematician and philosopher who never graduated from college but received 46 honorary doctorates. 

Mistakes are just opportunities for learning something new! So don't be afraid to fail and by making mistakes. If it fails,  it does not matter, just do it one more time! ALWAYS KEEP IN MIND!It's Okay!  


 
The Magic Formula of Success! Please bear in mind, No ShortCut to Success!

 
THERE IS NO ELEVATOR TO SUCCESS. YOU HAVE TO TAKE STAIRS, KEEP GOING, DON'T GIVE UP AND ONE MORE STEP TO GO! GO! GO! GO!

Thursday, May 7, 2020

TAKE ACTION

“Things may come to those who wait, but only the things left by those who hustle”. 
                                                                                             Abraham Lincoln- sixteenth president of the US 

 “What we think or what we know or what we believe is, in the end, of little consequence. The only consequence is what we do”. John Ruskin- English author, art critic, and social commentator.


The world doesn’t pay you for what you know; it pays you for what you do. There’s an enduring axiom of success that says, “The universe rewards action.” Yet as simple and as true as this principle is, it’s surprising how many people get bogged down in analyzing, planning, and organizing when what they really need to do is take action. 

When you take action, you trigger all kinds of things that will inevitably carry you to success. You let those around you know that you are serious in your intention. People wake up and start paying attention. People with similar goals become aligned with you. You begin to learn things from your experience that cannot be learned from listening to others or from reading books. You begin to get feedback about how to do it better, more efficiently, and more quickly. Things that once seemed confusing begin to become clear. Things that once appeared difficult begin to be easier. You begin to attract others who will support and encourage you. All manner of good things begins to flow in your direction once you begin to take action.

Talk is Cheap!
Over the years of teaching and coaching people in my company and in my seminars, I have found that the one thing that seems to separate winners from losers more than anything else is that winners take action. They simply get up and do what has to be done. Once they have developed a plan, they start. They get into motion. Even if they don’t start perfectly, they learn from their mistakes, make the necessary corrections, and keep taking action, all the time building momentum, until they finally produce the result they set out to produce or something even better than they conceived of when they started. 

To be successful, you have to do what successful people do, and successful people are highly action-oriented.

Sometimes it is good to isolate yourself to think back what you have done and what you want to do for the next step.

Nothing Happened until You Take Action 
                                                      If your ship doesn’t come in, swim out to meet it.                                                              Jonathan Winters – Grammy Award-winning comedian, actor, writer, and artist.

For the example: To demonstrate the power of taking action in my seminars, I hold up a $100 bill and ask, “Who wants this $100 bill?” Invariably, most of the people in the audience will raise their hands. Some will wave their hands vigorously back and forth; some will even shout out “I WANT IT” or “I WILL TAKE IT” or “GIVE IT TO ME.” But I just stand there calmly holding out the bill until they get it. Eventually, someone jumps out of her seat, rushes to the front of the room, and takes the bill $100 from my hand. After the person sits down- now $100 richer for her efforts- I ask the audience, “What did this person do that no one else in the room did? She got off her butt and took action. She did what was necessary to get the money. And that is exactly what you must-do if you want to succeed in life. You must take action, and, in most cases, the sooner the better.” I then ask, “How many of you thought about getting up and just coming and taking the money but stopped yourselves?”
I then ask them to remember what they told themselves that stopped them from getting up.
The usual answers are;
# I didn’t want to look like I wanted or needed it that badly.
# I wasn’t sure if you would really give it to me.
# I was too far back in the room.
# Other people need it more than I do.
# I didn’t want to look greedy.
# I was afraid I might be doing something wrong and then people would judge me or laugh at me.
# I was waiting for further instructions.

I then point out that whatever things they said to stop themselves are the same things that they say to stop themselves in the rest of their lives. One of the universal truths in life is “HOW YOU DO ANYTHING IS HOW YOU DO EVERYTHING.” If you are cautious here, you are probably cautious everywhere. If you hold yourself back for fear of looking foolish here, you probably hold yourself back for fear of looking foolish elsewhere. You have to identify those patterns and break through them. It is time to stop holding yourself back and just go for the gold. (p.157)


Reference: Canfield, J. (2007) How to Get from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be: THE 25 PRINCIPLES OF SUCCESS


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One of the iconic Royal Albert Dock Liverpool





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