"Secret" Love others= love ourselves

The first time, when I just hear about the title "secret" which act by Jay Chou. I feel like "I must watch this movie". I cannot describe what's that feeling? but one thing I can imagine is "this movie sure great and nice which can bring to me a feeling that I feel I wanna find in 1 day".

after I watched this movie, I hope that I can see "him" in dream or in my real life which no body can see him but only me. This "him" is my primary school mate, which now I think I wont see him anymore or I dont have this opportunity to meet him anymore. This is because no one even me also dont know where is he at this moment? Is't he still live in this world?

Now, I really feel thousand of regret because of I didn't meet him when he wanna date with me on that day. What can I do now? Nothing, because time is running and won't come back and wait for me even reverse. Now, I still wonder what he going to talk to me if I go to meet him? because after that day, he asked me "why I didn't come?" I remind silent but he told to me that he wait for me the whole night until the basketball broken. He really angry but actualy that night I had go but I didn't show my face and I only look at him in the long distance. The reasons are I feel like lack of confident because he so attractive which have many girl wanna dated with him.

Now, what can I do for my mistake are, I won't let time bring my opportunity run away or I won't miss it anymore and I must appreciate very chances that I have. because I really don't want live in "regrettable" life. It is very painful!

Please, appreciate every chances that we have, and don't even said and think "Never mind, I still have another chances and opportunity in future". But can you guarantee that chances will coming back to you again?

Happiness- not a destination, but a journey. The truth is that there is no better time to be happy than right now! If not now, then when?
Happiness is not tomorrow, it's now. Happiness is not dependency, it's decision.

Please appreciate people around us and family members. And you will won't cry if one of them leave us, because we already do ours best and wouldn't feel like regrettabel of one thing we haven't do yet for them. "LOVE people around us and bring happiness to them" because LOVE others = Love ourselves.