Actually I ‘m quiet struggling about should a person who are always take care of people, give something to people, and so on wish to get back what he/ she has given to a people?
This is because people around me keep asking me that “you should not just be a Giver without let a person those received the present without saying “Thank you”, “appreciate” it or even feel nothing.
For me, it is ok. Because I really not expect people who are get blessing from me need to give back what I had given. The reason is “this is not a business”, this is an “opportunity” for me to do some thing good for you.
1st thing I need is I can help people when the people need my help, and willing to let me to show a hand. Seriously
Can you imagine, the people who really need help but don’t let anyone help? This is even more worse.
2nd thing is I’m no expect that people need to know what is the purpose I doing for them, but at least I have this opportunity to serve you. Because I really don’t know when I still have this chance to serve you, help you, bless you and meet you anymore.
3rd thing is “time”, I believe Time is important thing in our daily life which all of us are dating with, talk about with and even become a life partner with it. Because we will always watching our watch and asking what is the time now? Maybe this is the only time; I can help you in my life time.
I really scare that I will regret in my whole life with what I cannot help in that time and in future it will staying in my memory which is bad memory.
Sometime, my best friends are keep telling me that, sokfong ar, no use de, you keep helping him/ her since him/ her won’t appreciate it, and even never say “thank you” to you. Why they want to said so?
Because they really seeing that “person who I helping never appreciate it, and some more treat me like a staff (which without paying). And I always respond them “never mind la, 1 year 1 time only”.
Actually in my heart is “I really want to give thanks because give me this great opportunity to help, bless and even can be closer to” (especially person who I’m love with). Even though, he/ she might not know, but at least, I have this chance to help him/ her before. So great: )
Atleast I won't regrat in future and I have love "you" all before.
So, can I combine "Give + Never mind la = happiness" haha: )
1 comment:
I agree with what you do. Give more and ask lesser. AS we do it with all our heart, we don need other ppl response to feel good or anything. Before anything , before any rsponse, once we did what we should do and want to do, we should already receive the fullness of joy.
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